need good all round setup

Ill start by asking please don't burn me real bad. I've searched and read much stuff, cant quite find what fits my needs. I have a 08 Double cab short bed 6cyl SR5. I run 255/80/17 (pie cutters) on stock FJ rims. My current setup is standard spacers front, TRD springs in back with helper. Its time to redo it i'm getting front and rear bruteforce bumpers built, rear is hi clearance with tire carrier) camper shell and getting pull out drawer built for bed (adding good amount of weight to back). The truck is my DD, it does more camping and exploring, and towing my 81, not any heavy wheeling i have the 81 for that. So saying that need a lift for ease of maintenance handle heavy load and not break the bank maybe around 1000-1200. were I get really lost is what other parts are also needed and what coil is best with what shock and so on. Is there's a kit that fits my ticket or piece something? Once again thanks.