I need your prayers......BAD!

Yeah Bad...I hope you have thought about this long and hard. There are ways around the kids thing...and sorry to get all negative on your thread- but the wretched husband thing sounds like an excuse/cop out for something else.

I hope that it works out the way you want...Best of luck.

 

Keep in mind, I haven't been a cop for a long time. And NO, I am not getting out to make a booty call.

 

I'll keep you in my prayers brother.

 

Even without having kids it is going to be rough on you. It took me ten years to get over a divorce with 2 kids. Things in common are manufactured by two people who want to make it work. You don't have to spend all your off time with her so some things in common still leaves you time to do things you like to do. Plenty of options for kids. Kids are great and one of the best things in my prior life but that page has turned and now life is still great just different. Think long and hard before you turn down this road your bent on. May be some advice from trusted friends that doesn't have a dog in this fight. But what ever you decide it is going to take a lot of guts and determination. Also a lot of support and prayers. My prayers are with you. Hopefully you have a lot of support.


vince

 

Sorry to hear it man. 2 of my 3 sibling-in-laws (wife's sisters) are going through the same thing. After trying to split, they both came back because they realized the grass wasn't greener on the other side. They are both going to counseling and that is HIGHLY recommended before pulling the plug on the marriage.

Regarding kids, adapt; find a donor/carrier...there are many solutions to a problem that many suffer from. Wow will she feel shitty if that comes up as one reason you are splitting. If it's a health reason, she can't control that. You BOTH need to live with that problem.

My wife has crohn's and I adapt my lifestyle around it. It's not her fault. We watch what we eat, where we go, what we bring, etc. That's what 2 people decide to do when they mend their lives together.

In whatever you do, I wish you BOTH the best of luck.

 

Well, today is the day. We are having "the" conversation this afternoon. Pray for me.

 

good luck, sorry to hear about this.

 

I agree with Scooter. It has been my experience that if you both don't want to make it work then it won't. My ex-wife did this to me so I guess I have a one-sided opinion.

Good like dude, hopefully you're putting the necessary time into thinking about it. I'll be prayin for ya both.

 

That things work out for the best for you both

 

I think Miikeyd said it best. Think about the decision really hard. That is a Huge step to take. Good Luck to you both. A broken heart isnt fun for anyone, even when you both separate on good terms.

 

I'm praying for both of you pal! I hope everything works out for the best.

 

I agree. Good luck to you badguybuster.

 

In my thoughts.

 

I feel for you guys. I had the bomb dropped on me last thursday. It does not feel good. 22 yrs down the drain.

Thoughts and prayers to both of you guys.

 

I'll pray for you man, hope only good will come of it.

 

Man I don't know what to say. I just pray that the Lord guides your paths. I don't know all the specs of everything, no matter what, it's tough.
Look to Him and He will give you your answers.

 

got you in my thoughts and prayers, man.

 

Well, it is done. I left last night. Still looking for a place to live, I crashed with a friend but need to find a place. I don't know how often I will get to check in with the TW forum until I get squared away. So, see ya'll when I can.

 

good luck man