ex wife reconciliation

Hi everyone, I want more help on this situation. My ex wife still shows signs that she loves and misses. She tries to get me jealous and she is still jealous of everything I do. Hard to explain everything else, but I too want to get back with her.

we have a 2 year old son together, and I don't want him growing up like she did. Help me on what I should do or act to show her my change. She still wants me to change but won't believe me. I want some help on reconciliation with her.

 

wut?

 

x2
I don’t know what to tell you OP.

but I’ll start the

oh and here is some for others as well.

 

Bitches be crazy, be the best father you can be without worrying about her, if you had to get divorced once already chances are it wont work again, then you risk shit happening in front of your kid or her making shit up to get you in trouble

 

x2

And

 

There is a lot of stuff missing from your original post. If you are wanting our opinions, we need to know the back ground of this situation. Why are you split? How bad was the split? What is at stake with getting back together? Etc.. etc...

 

Now I'm a little sauced but when I got back together with my ex it was only a matter of time before we split again. We had another great few years "ish" but in the end there was reason on both sides that ended it the first time that ended it again. We were both adult about it and can be friends till this day but that is all. That being said we didn't have kids together that changes it and I can't speak for that. It would be tough for me now having a 2 year old daughter with my current wife. I can't weigh in on your current situation. Best of luck.


Together or not you need to be there for your son.

 

Depends what caused the problem in the first place. If the issue is still there it's not going to get better without help, more than likely counseling. Everyone knows relationships require work, reconciling a divorce or separation requires that much more work that BOTH of you must bring to the table. Loving and missing someone doesn't mean you are willing to work on the relationship, it means you value each other as people/friends but there is more to being married than that.

24, divorced, been through the ups and downs of "maybe we should be together/no we shouldn't" so that's my side. Best of luck brother.

Your son is better off in 2 happy houses rather than 1 dysfunctional house, remember that.

 

Maybe try asking somewhere other than a forum about pick-up trucks...

We are qualified with mechanical questions. But relationship questions..... Ehh not so much.

 

Gimme some of that!

 

I don't think you realize TW is more of a community that addresses plenty of areas past just our trucks. Oh and welcome to tacoma world.

 

If the milk is sour do you put it back in the refrigerator and try it again the next day ?

Cypher

 

I think he's waiting for it to cheese up.

 

Thank for the welcome! I agree with your point about this being a community of giving advice beyond the automotive kind.

 

I'll also add that trying to make an ex jealous is some real high school shit.

 

Do not go back man it is better to just not talk to her except on matters of your daughter.

 

Oh I think we all know, doesn't change the fact it's high school bullshit though.

 

I see this jealousy behavior all the time in my profession and it never ends well. If she really wants you back she needs to go about it in the right way.

 

X2!!!

 

It's a little hard, but it's been a year. I did take the time to heal and to ask myself if she's worth it. All my thoughts of happiness has her.

Well the problem started with my in-laws, they never liked it that I wasn't white. Didn't approve of her marrying me or that she was pregnant with our son. Year and a half into our marriage, they finally show up again. We had a little fight about her seeing a dating site spam on my email. We argue, she hates thinking I'm cheating, calls up step mom to pick her up.

She got really mad at me for standing up for myself in court and that she couldn't get full custody of our son and move to Arkansas with her grandma and step grandpa. She brought in her uncle who's a lawyer to defeat me in court but no use. Everyone pretended to care and be involved. No matter how she fought for full custody and didn't get it, everyone started to disappear.

Her other ex finally caught on her childish games of being used to make me jealous, left and that caused her to start texting me again. She revealed to me that we won't get back together because she believes I've been sleeping around.

Key thing, we're insanely opposites, she's shy and I love being around people and parties.