ex wife reconciliation

Nothing much to add here, whatever you decide to do, err on the side of you have a child who needs a stable home, stable parents and a stable upbringing. Your responsibility is to the child and to yourself. Do not involve yourself in unhealthy situations and drama with the mother. She isn't appearing to be doing so, so you need to be the concrete person.
It is best for the.child for the parents to be together and be happy and compatible. But this doesn't sound like a happy, compatible relationship.

Do what you can do, but please make sure it is the right thing for your kid. Priority #1

 

Relationship will never work. There isn't trust. You can't rebuild trust once its been lost rationally or not. There will always be doubt and it will cause problems. You have won partial custody of your son. Don't risk losing that by getting back involved with her. Assume that all communication from her is a trap to hurt you in some way.

It sucks. Im sorry.

 

Iv'e been married for 35 years and I can tell you that my wife was brought up in a broken home, my grandmother left my father and his brothers at an early age and it effected both of them a lot, so when I got married I made a commitment to my two boys to stand by them no matter what, so my wife and I decided to put aside any differences we had and stay together no matter what, when you had a son he just became the most important thing in your life, so you and your wife should try to make that same commitment and lead by example and show your son what he means to you.

 

Thank you everyone, I do love her and my son as much as my taco. Me and her and the taco got history. I know deep down that we could work, just as stated that our commitment should be towards our son. We've gone thru lots of rough patches.

Can you just imagine being an idiot and getting your 5 lug taco stuck in the mountain and having to walk for 12 hours in the middle of night with your wife to find help? I just think back to stuff like this, there's more, and I know we're just going thru some hard times.

Same here, my dad grew up without knowing his real dad and my grandma died when he was 2, whereas my ex grew up with divorced grandparents and divorced parents. Dad was a violent person locked up for 10 years of her life, mom was a bad druggy. I don't want her going back to such a bad life or my son experiencing that kinda life.

 

^^ dude, stop living in the past.

Those are just memories of good times, let it go and move on. I understand you still love your ex but she's an ex for a reason. I'm a single dad and I have full custody of my 6 year old daughter while her mom lives in Texas. I will always care about my ex but thats as far as it'll go. We had a lot if great memories together (Yes, even in my old and current taco) but I know in the end, it'll never work. My ex, who has a bf and a son with him, recently told me that she misses me and how she regrets throwing our relationship away when she flew in to return my daughter but don't let the good times block out the bad.

You're Asian, I'm Asian. My ex is white, your ex is white. Bitches be trippin!

Mopi lah-lah!

 

I have lots of great memories of my ex wife. Sometimes those memories make me miss her alot.

And then I remind myself of all the bad and my moment of weakness subsides.

I will always love her, but it will NEVER work.

Find a new girl friend or boy friend and snap out of this loneliness.

 

Haha thank you again. My taco and my son is what keeps me sane and moving forward. I admit it's hard, but it is getting easier and easier as time keeps going by.

 

Its even easier when the tang comes in. Ya know? That stuff astronauts get.. They get all the tang they want.

 

Two Words: Truck Money

(jk I have no idea what I'm talking about, so do whatever floats your boat)

 

Thank you everyone, I do love her and my son as much as my taco. Me and her and the taco got history. I know deep down that we could work, just as stated that our commitment should be towards our son. We've gone thru lots of rough patches.

Good Luck.