So hanging out with this girl I just met...

Background: met thru a friend about two weeks ago. Exchanged numbers. Went out on a double date with her and our mutual friends who are dating. Went well.

Planned on going hiking with her this Friday. Any tips or pointers on what to do/ how to carry myself? I'm so rusty when it comes to dating. I don't know how to read female signs so yeah I need help with that as well haha. I mean if she is willing to go hang with me alone for an extended period of time that's good right? Only thing that has irked me is her texting, because she randomly stopped texting back a couple times or she will be excited and whatnot but not text much. Any advice is appreciated. Love yall.

 

How old are you bro? Women pee a lot, I mean twice a lot. You have to expect they are always in the bathroom. Maybe chatting with another dude while they are pooping, who knows.

Keep it real,

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21. Just been out of the game for a while so trying to figure things out again haha

 

Just be cool bro. Some girls will text when they feel like texting. Talking to a bish right now that is the exact same way. Super cool chick, got a lot in common, hang out and go on dates often. Hint at flirting at first. Gotta feel the water. If you're totally confident and cool with everything, she will notice that. If she's comfy around you bro, that's +10000000 points. But keep the flirting up, don't wana get friend zoned. She will notice what you're doing and see the intent. If you're more of the upfront guy, just talk to her about it. See if this is going anywhere. Tell her you're interested or attracted. So many guys get friended because they never make the move.

 

Play hard to get, and act like you don't need the attention. Appreciate the company, but reinforce that you have a plan, and at this moment she is not a part of it.

Good luck bro, you own the world.

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Yeah I hear you. Its funny cuz with girls I'm not attracted to I flirt really well but girls that I just met and I have intent on dating something happens where I don't flirt as much as I usually do with others. Gotta knock that habit and do that with this chick. Thing is she wants to get to know more about me apparently but I'm the only one asking questions really so I don't know what to make of that

 

Dude 21 really?
You haven't been out of the game your just getting started.

 

Lol well i was in a relationship with the same girl for first three years of college and now this is my first time really being single in college so for me it's been a while haha

 

This is good advice. Snapchat and facebook help if you have them on there and stay active: Going to 5ks, Concerts, offroadin, partys, social gatherings, sports, and hiking. If she sees you out and about having fun without her she will want to be apart of that. Also don't act desperate don't talk or give out to much information. Let her ask when she asks question like where your from thats your sign shes intrested! When you text her try not to ask questions it comes off as needy and thiers no need to text her everyday. Like after the weekend don't text: "How was your weekend?" you should change it up like "I bet my weekend can beat up your weekend!" she will go crazy wanting to know whats got you so cocky that you had a better weekend then her now you have her asking questions

 

And your still in the playground.

 

Girls are going to frustrate you then they tend to want the guy that does'nt pay them attention so the girl you like is not going to like you haha but the girl you don't like is going to like you thats how the girls of today are inless you find a really nice one thats not in the modern times there are exceptions.

 

Usually when that happens, I'll purposefully make some awkward silence. But only if I notice I'm doing a lot of talking (like I'm asking everything about her). After a bit I'll say something along the lines of "So...do you talk much?"
Makes them question themselves and worry about trying to impress you. Make yourself dominant. If you go in like you know you're the man, but not acting like a cock, it should just come to you dude. Don't let the situation intimidate you cuz it will show.

 

When you start over thinking it, that's when you'll slip up! My best advice: treat her like an annoying younger sister and she'll practically beg you for attention

 

You know that look women give you when they want to have sex?









Yeah, me neither.

I got nothing, just be yourself. Fuqu all that "trying to be what you think they want"

KO

 

yeah be classy and call her don't wait by the phone for a text. Text as little as possible. Be confident in YOURSELF do what you do and tell her what you are doing. Have a plan and do it do not be indecisive tell her what you two ar doing. your a boss you got this!

 

Be sure to drive her in your truck, panty removal ensured

 

What exactly do you mean by tell her what we're doing?

 

Have options for plans. Don't be a "bump on a log" and leave all the decisions up to her. Do whatever you want to do and offer to include her. If she's interested in doing whatever you want and happy just to be there, awesome! You're still young, dude! She's not the last one on Earth! You'll find the one who fits you. Don't settle or try and re-mold yourself around her. BE YOURSELF! You'll be much happier in the long run.

Have fun, man!

Matt

 

I think he's saying that you should make the plans. For instance, if you want to get dinner ask if she likes a certain food. If she says yes, say let's go to so and so restaurant for dinner. Don't make her choose where you guys eat, it never works. Make confident decisions.

 

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