NEED advice!!

Thanks! Best of luck to Levi, too. Hopefully they come running back. I've never felt this before. I feel dead.

 

We ALWAYS used to do that.

 

Well then you are doing something wrong. Whats some of the stuff she liked you for before you first started dating that made her wanna be with you? Reflect on that and see if you can work on something.

 

I want to stay as far away from the truck as possible. I'll definitely do something stupid.



You're right. I need to find something to do. Maybe a break will work out.


Thanks Cliff.

 

I've been trying everything.




Levi, I apologize for the thread jack. What happened to me just occurred and I'm just venting.

 

I swear TW has more therapy discussions then a Dr. Phil episode. j/k. Enjoy the freedom bro, you'll find "the one". I did...sort of.....up until I signed the damn marriage license. WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING!?!?!?

Oops.....sorry....

Anyway.... Use this time to enjoy life. Hell you're not even 21 yet. You'll be fine, we have all been there.

 

For sure man. Hopefully I can think a little at work in a little bit.

 

if you dont already, start running or hitting up a gym. great, great way to give yourself time to think and release stress. plus you'll start looking good for all the other ladies out there...maybe even meet a few @ the gym. just get out and do somthing that will get you tired and your mind off your situation...

<----GO!!! GET TO DA CHOPPA!!!!! (look @ my avatar)

 

Thinking back...I actually did the gym thing too.

 

Thanks man.

 

haha its arite derek any advice that your getting is good for me to, i think im gonna go tonight and join the gym that some of my buddies already go to, seems like everyone agrees to do that. we talked last night and were def broken up but she still wants to communicate...id love to do that it "sounds" good since i dont wana completly loose her but idk well see, maybe ill throw out the ignore card. best of luck derek and thanks everyone for the advice

 

you need to be VERY careful with the continuing communication thing bro...i know it sounds good and it very well may, but if she so happens to start dating or even just hang out with another guy your are gonna hurt yourself more...thats why its sometimes good to just let go for a while and do your own thing.

 

Yea now that I think about it your very right. Hmmm now I'm confused

 

take it slow. distance yourself for at least 2 weeks or so. no communication between you 2. it will be hard but you need that time to wind down and adjust to single life. time to think, and make her heard start spinning some too. when my girlfrined and i broke up we went almost 2 months after before talking and then hung out a few times and long story short got back together and last week just celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary. just because it's down now, doesnt mean it's over all together.

 

Levi, are you taking the ignore approach or communication approach? I'm going to talk to her tomorrow and see how that goes, if it goes good then we can hang out and all that good stuff. If it doesn't go good, I'll not talk to her for a week or so and see how that goes.

 

Well see im a little ahead of you but still not sure what i want to do. We talked last night about everything and agreed to have some communication between us. But the more i think about it the more i second guess that, i wana try to make her miss me and maybe shell come back, as much as i hate being an asshole and as hard as i know its gonna be to not pick up my phone and text or call her like i have been for 2 years i think i might try and just ignore her for a week or 2 and see how she handles it.

 

Man I'm getting tired of these kind of postings, move on, tap something else, if she dose not want to see you anymore so what move on, your young there is plenty of other woman out there, she may seem like the one but if she was than wouldn't she be with you?

I haven't read any of this post and the main post, but they are all the same most of the time.
Please no more of these kind of postings, get some balls guys, move on. Am I wrong?

 

then dont read them dude not one person here is making you, all im doin is asking for advice from people who have been through this since i never have

 

You asked for advice so I gave you some advice, use it! When I was your age and a girl left me, it was hard. But life moves on and so did I.
Everyone has this happen to them, if they ask what to do than they may never know what to do in the future if it happens again. The advice I gave you is what I learned what to do.

But don't take it personal bro, this is life.

 

i no i no im not, im just like goin crazy since it just happened i cant really get it outta my head, i wish i could fast forward a few weeks but i guess like you said thats life. on that note i gotta get outta the house and into the taco!