Programming the selectable features

Have a 08 with the security upgrade. Anybody know the drill for turning off the 20 second headlight feature during arming and un-arming (get it to turn signal only)?
I have this system on a '99 and the book with it's security system reads word for word with the '08. Shuting off the headlights could be done on the '99 as well as a few other features that could be changed. Thanks

 

With the new ignition keys with the chips you simply follow the old instructions except you have to use the lock button on the arm rest as the key fob lock button won't work with the chiped key in the ignition when turned on. later