Upper control arm issue

I have a 05 Toyota Tacoma 2wd 5lug standard cab. We are having issue with the arm hitting the bottom part of the strut. It needs to be more open and maybe a little longer. Can’t find any parts for this truck when it comes to this issue or information. We put all new oem parts on and new struts. We use an easy lift kit that came with a spacer and leaf to bring the truck up 3”. They said it would work with factory parts. It’s hitting on the bottom part of the strut with it all installed. Tried looking for aftermarket with more of an opening to create better travel between the spring and strut. No luck out of 30 different places that I called and website. This makes no sense on why this is doing that. Even with the lift kit removed we are still hitting. For the love god please point us in the direction of where in the hell to find what we are looking for please.