what lift for 3rd.gen

I would like a good looking stance and be able to run 33 in tire and 11 in wide tire. Think.it is 285 70 17 or 285 55 20. Not sure yet which way. But u have idea. This is my everyday commuter truck 80 miles a day to work.and back round trip all hyw. Then on weekends will pull small.boat to river or lake or just go run to some out of the way places and fish from.back in back country stuff to get too it. Plus some off road trails and just driving around town cruising. I want as good.or better than stock ride plus have at least 3 in lift or 4 whatever is best that looks great. Can someone please tell.me.what lift is best please. Example is the 15 tundra with 6 in lift and 35 ickey Thompson decan 38 tires road better than stock. It was rough country 6 in. I had stock 15 tundra with bfg at tires and the.lifted one my buddy has just like my stock 15 was better. Traded my tundra for 16 Tacoma wanting to lift and do same but want to get better ride or.at.least same. Icon has like 7 stages ? Dont even.know if they are the lift for what I'm looking for or is there another brand or.lift for what I am trying to accomplish?