Power Lock issue, dome light issue

Hello all,
This is the first Toyota I've ever owned. it is a 2004 double cab and the dome light hasn't worked since I bought it. while changing the bulb I blew the fuse so now I have no map lights, dome light, radio, or clock. everything else is working fine (dash lights, 12v chargers, power windows/locks.
I'm on my way to get some fuses now but something even weirder happened. My power locks work fine with the door controls, but the keyfob will only unlock the driver door. it will not lock any door, but both the lock and unlock buttons cause the red light to flash on the fob. even weirder is that even though it will not lock the door, if I press the lock button while the door is open it buzzes just like if it were locked.
Any guesses as to my problem here? thanks guys.

BTW, I'm attaching the video from before the fuse blew. the bulb was low flickering until I touched it with the meter then it would brighten up.