DRL Switchback issue

hello all. first post,

I have a 2011 tacoma trd sport

I first purchased the DRL kit( the relay and jumper wire ). then i thought i should buy LED's for the truck. so i did ( from Amazon ). the front turn signal bulbs i bought are switchback LED and the rear are standard LED. so i also bought the relay to solve the hyper flash issue. so i installed the bulbs first and i check to see if they work. they work( hyper flashing ) next i go in to install the relay and jumper wire. then i come to a halt.

the jumper and the relay are suppose to plug into the same spot. did i mess up by purchasing the (flasher) relay instead of resistors? is there any mods i can do the use both relays (flasher and DRL)?

thanks in advance for any and all help