Married or divorced? Need advice

I thought you rub the taco and bring it home in the butt.

 

I got married to the love of my life at 22. Had been together 4 years both with undergrads and cas same as OP. 8 months in went to Basic and came home single. I would try not to think you've been around the block at 23. People change about a year into their careers it just happens. I would stay single for at least another year and make sure your morals don't change with your career paths. My now Ex wanted to drink and continue to do fun stuff rather than the grown up path.

 

What's interesting is out in the real world all men are horrible and cheaters and women are saints

On this particular thread and the ask a girl thread on this forum there are tons of stories of men walking in on their wives or gf cheating on them

So is the narrative out in the real world incorrect or women of Tacoma owners are cheaters ?

 

Whoa​

 

Personally I think the feminist movement has destroyed traditional marriage. I'm not talking about make me a samwich woman stuff, but the faithful part. I can say that there was also a big push in doing what makes you "happy" directly after 9/11 that was real. I can say that I thought it was me and I took about a year off of dating to clear my head. I know it's cliche but I started church and dedicating my life more towards God and less towards myself. Turns out when your around people who have the same values you really find what love is not lust. I've had the best 12 years of my life with my current wife not based solely on lust.