Lift questions on 08 sport for 32-33's

First post here, new to my tacoma and found this site to be a huge help. I've read and searched this forum and learned a bit, already ordered my 5100's and quality tube steps based on your solid advice (thanks guys!) I actually work for a NY toyota dealer and have had varying opinions from my techs (Im just an ASM) so here goes..

Looking to maintain my smooth comfortable ride, if not improve it. Was told 5100's front, stock coils, AAL rear is way to go cheap but decent. If I plan to fit 32-33's without excessive rubbing / cutting things. What specific OME springs are best, only thinking 2.5-3" total lift is needed.
Secondly, having the sport with the TSB I should have 4 leafs, was advised 5 is too harsh a ride.. How can I add enough to the back end without doing the horrid spacers youve all advised against? No bags.. and I plan on hauling a 23ft boat on rare occasion, big focus on no rubbing and fitting some nice bigger tires. Sorry if its a long post, look forward to your advice. Already have the 5100s here for front. New frame being done next month. -Ry

 

Welcome.

 

I don't have any advice, but I'm looking for the exact same answers. Hopefully someone chimes in shortly.