marriage B.S

Saying that Facebook or myspace ruined a relationship is rediculious! Its the people involved. If something as simple as that can do it then the relationship was doomed from the get go.

I vote talk to her about it.
I leave my phone sitting everywhere in the house and when it rings if she is close to it I tell her to answer it. This is my ploy to let them have free roam of my phone. After being like this for a while they stop and if they don't I casually pick up their phones and just look around to see what they will do, it kills them. Then I ask if she doesn't like it why does she do it to me?
This is how I delt with my ex. She was just insecure. Now I have a great girl, she is learning to be my spotter.

 

I'll just leave this here:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=elIFrSGEBxk&feature=related

 

lol that was good

 

first of all, she's insecure and needs to cut that bullshit out. secondly, facebook will cause you two to get a divorce if you dont delete your account. i'll be deleting mine very soon

 

I say you fight fire with fire. Become as annoying to her as she is being to you by doing the same thing only worse. Maybe she'll cop a clue. It's a 2 way street, expect nothing that cannot be expected of you.

 

As posted before, read this carefully

http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/least_interest.htm

Sit her down, and tell her simply: Let's get rid of our personal FB accounts, and just make a joint account. STOP ADDING RANDOM ASS TO YOUR FRIENDS LIST. Then just lose interest in FB completely. She'll be on the 1 account more than you, just stop caring. Seriously if you just lose interest in all the stuff she is trying to "snoop" around on, she will quit acting paranoid.

Whatever you do, stop reacting to her. Just stop caring and she will get it.

OR

Show her stuff all the time like its funny and you just learned how to use it. If you get her more involved in what you're doing on the computer and stuff, she will lose interest really quick.

 

thanks fellers.

It just seems a bit childish to me.

we'll just see how it goes....some days are better than others.

it just irritates me that she has to check in on me.

 

Like I said man, just give up and act defeated. Or go stay with a buddy for a while, not getting angry but just act disappointed. After all, if she wants you all to herself so bad, she just might realize this will make her lose you after all.

 

Her bullshit? Or Facebook? Because both are, in actuality.

 

Her bullshit.

I dont really get on there much, and FB isnt the biggest problem, its her always wanting to sneak in my phone, when she never finds anything...thats what really gets me.

FB WAS a good way to keep up with friends that have moved all over the place, but now everytime i get on there all i see is some stupid ass farmville crap or something.

 

my gf knows if she wants to see something all she has to do is ask. having said that, she does not know my email passwords, my computer passwords, she doesn't snoop in my phone, and she knows none of this will change once we're married. actually, i may get rid of the computer password so she can use it but other than that, we maintain our privacy and just trust each other not to fuck up. i dont deal with untrusting women. in my experience, a woman who wont trust, cant be trusted herself. not saying your wife cant be trusted, but thats just my personal experience