Cement with cosmetic Mods

Making some decisions on Mods for the New '18 Cement TRD OffRoad. Here in AZ, I definitely use 4x4 a lot but even in my Jeep, never really pushed the envelope too much. Still doing the single vehicle daily driver thing so not going to go crazy on mods.

Anyone have photos/recommendations of the following:
Cosmetic: New Grill with a camera mount and LED's, Winch hopefully one that doubles as a compressor, Headlights and taillights black out, Bumper, fender flares for body protection. TRD Pro 17" Rims Grey vs Black decision (on a Cement which would look better)

Looking to widen the stance with a Backset but not looking to go wider than maybe 10" on the tires. Want to conserve gas a bit (daily Driver).

weighing the pros and cons on a lift. I doubt I would want to run anything more than a 33" but I want the spare to fit in the spare location under the bed. So probably sticking to something smaller. Anyone know the max clearance under there?

My plan is to store the offroad tires on TRD pro rims in the garage and swap them when I am going on a trip into the dirt. This way I can preserve tread on them to make them last. I did this with the Jeep for a while and it worked well.

What recommendations for underbody protection. Since I am staying lower and avoiding the lift for now, I want to beef it up underneath.

Thanks in advance.