Girlfriend advice

Thanks for the help guys, and yeah we're pretty serious. But if it was mean to be you'd think she'd honor her promise because I know i've honored mine in our relationship. It's not the fact that I can't stand smoking, it's more like a I-care-about-your-health thing, because my dad had a hard time quitting and her mom is really addicted. I don't know, it just bugs me that she's turning into her mom, who is the one causing the stress.

 

A wise old man once told me that his grandfather told him "they always turn into their mother"

Too true.

My exs mom was a lying cheating psycho bitch. my ex slowly turned into her. she even gained 150#s and is exactly like her now. so glad i got out of it.

My wifes mom is awesome. good cook, adventurous and a great person not overweight after 3 kids. My wife is just like her mom.

 

Well said and totally true. I noticed the same thing.


2 years really isn't a long time to be together. Seems to me your not happy with her so see what its like without her.

 

the thing is that you are really not pissed about her having a cigarette. the integrity of the relationship is compromised due to the fact that she had a cig behind your back and now you don't trust her. that is the real reason you why you are mad.

 

Well I broke it off today fellas. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do, but I know we'll both be happier this way. Besides, I'm about to start college

 

you broke it off because she was an undercover smoker?

 

not just that, when I really got to thinking about it there were a lot of things missing. She loved me more than I loved her, and if I could tell that's how it was, then she deserves someone that can love her just as much.

 

i had an old guy tell me once.."hell, if she would but "that"in her mouth....."

this was a geezer! i almost pissed myself laughing.

sorry for the breakup..there will be lots more of them up and coming...best start sooner than later.

 

There is plenty of woman up there who don't smoke. Dump her!!!!!!!!