How durable are the Rav4's? Gf looking at them

The girlfriend is sick of her carola, haha. I would prefer her get a 4th gen 4runner...but she likes the Rav4's.

So... How durable are they? Is the v6 good? What generation/years are the best and or the worst? Can any of them do 200,000+ miles as easily as 4runners/Tacoma's/land cruisers?

 

My parents just were hit in there's. Side swiped at 25 mph, they survived, totaled the car. Entire side was smashed in. Tin can on wheels. Unibody death trap. I only buy vehicles that are body on frame. They do look nice. Good luck.