Bumper protection

hey guys in know this has been address in other threads but couldn't find what I git 17 TRD pro v6. In last year I've hit 2 deer same damage bumper, air dam/spoiler and fender flare looking for a good protection bumper as light as possible I would like a grill guard if possible but only if really functional don't want a damage multipler and of course a easy on my wallet as possible I know ARB is the number one pick around here usually but looking for other options the wife doesn't want anything that looks like a tank any help is greatly appreciated

 

Before all the brush guard haters get here I'll show you my brush guard/winch mount. It included fish plates that wrap the frame past the radiator supports. Pull rated for a 12k winch. The other day I bumped a full dumpster 2in just fur fun.https://www.westinautomotive.com/sportsman-winch-mount-grille-guard/2016/toyota/tacoma

 

^ Thew wife's not gonna like that. lol