Suspension Suggestion Wheels and Tires

I’ll try to be specific in my question - I have read some threads and I’m impressed how much knowledge is available on this site. Someone has probably asked this before if so just point me to the thread. For my stock TRD Sport 4x4, I want about a two inch kit that levels the stance. My specific needs are slightly larger wheel and tires, improved ride, slightly better off-road capability. I do not go off road that much which is why I didn’t pay more for the TRD Off-road. If I do it’s not extreme and I will never rock climb. I was wondering if the Bilstein adjustable shocks would be best for the lift I want. Should I stick with 17” wheels or go to 16” for more tire? I’m interested in seeing what you have done if your mods are similar to my needs. Thanks!