Wiring ditch lights confusion please help.

Hey pair of ditch lights I installed.

I have this mictuning 2 lead wiring harness

MICTUNING LED Light Bar Wiring Harness Fuse 40A Relay On-off Rocker Switch Blue(2 Lead)

https://www.amazon.ca/gp/product/B00PTQOF4W/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o04_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1 that i have installed and ran through firewall it has a relay.

I have an air on board push button switch that I cant seem to figure out how to wire up.

The air on board switch has 4 wires:

1 red
1 green
1 blue
1 black

the mictuning harness had quick connects that made it 4 wires by having the white have 2 wires that I cut off to get through firewall and was going to but connect anyhow, it has:

1 black
1 white
1 blue

(I still have an uncut one for my light bar that i can take a photo of if that helps)

I have read a lot on this on other posts and I can't seem to get this figured out because there is so many different posts about add a fuse options and tapping into accessory wires, people that understand electrical make it sound so easy. unfortunately that is just not me.

I want the led on only when the truck is on ideally.

If anybody could shed some light that would be great.