Need suspension help for 2008 TRD Sport Double Cab- sites all so confusing when ordering

Hey guys this brother needs some help! I’ve read countless threads on here about suspension mainly the Bilstein 5100s bc that seems the simple budget solution. I get on these sites to try and order them and there’s just overwhelming drop downs and stuff to add that is just overwhelming and i end up getting frustrated and bail. I’ve tried headstrong off-road and talked to mike at off-road warehouse and even they have differing information on their OME coil lift heights for the OME springs. Why does this ish have to be so complicated. ? I just want a simple one stop shop or someone to walk me through this ish. I have about 191K on my stock suspension. Wanted to upgrade and thought might as well get someth8ng with a little lift option. Didn’t know it was gonna be this tough and confusing. Also looks like headstrong is out of stock on a lot and this Ironman 4x4 American place has some all in one kits but this shit is just high as hell!? Why? Lol. Thanks so much man I just wanna try and get some help on this or else I’ll just scratch the idea. Maybe it’s just not for me. _ Miller

 

If a budget-friendly replacement is al you’re after, you can find really cheap low mileage takeoffs from a 2nd Gen and even a 3rd Gen(provided about an inch of height increase up front). They pop-up very frequently in the marketplace section!