HID issue

Here is the problem.

I have DDM APEXCONE HID's in my 05 Taco. I started having a problem with them not coming on without some on-off, on-off turining of the knob. They would always come on after a few tries, even sometimes requiring me to turn off the truck, and then restart. I called DDM and they told me the issue was with the wiring harnass between the two ballsast. I sent the wiring harnass back, as I was covered under warranty. When they mailed in back to me the fedex guy left it on the front porch, which my dog then enjoyed as a snack. So I am currently just using my old factory bulbs. DDM doesn't sell just the wiring harnass. So, does anyone have a wiring harnass I could get without buying the entire set? Or the other question would be does anyone want to buy or trade for 2 perfectly good ballast and bulbs?