Lifted 05 Tacoma front end rebuild

Okay everybody need some help on this one I have an 05 Tacoma with an Iron Man 3 inch lift full suspension lift all the way around after having it on for roughly about six months I started noticing my front tires were getting choppy and all my front end components started wearing out all of the axle boots are now shredded and you can tell they're not an alignment like they should be if it were stock . The lift came with new upper control arms but my problem is I now want to rebuild all my front end components to better fit my lifted truck , I'm sure someone has ran into this issue before so any advice or part recommendation would be greatly appreciated