How much time do I got?

If that's the rear, I'd hate to see the area up front near the converters.

 

See above post


Actually that’s the worst spot. The fronts by the cats is solid.

 

What about the kids in the vehicle that he hits?

 

It seems from videos I've seen the rear is easier to repair. Hope you find a safe solution

 

This could be you! Give it a go and take lots of pics for us !

 

You've been aware of the issue for at least a year, calling others dramatic, reassuring us on the solid frame by the cats, and your username is mrcheap.
My guess is there's no urgency in this repair and you will likely carry-on like it never existed.

 

That’s by the rear leaf spring where a lot of load on and off happens. Lots of stress in that area.
Big nope

 

That is serious IMO, that thing shouldn't be on the road. I actually know a guy who had a frame break on his car, the drivers door opened and he fell out! He hung onto the steering wheel with a death grip because if he lets go, he gets run over by the rear wheel. The car then crashed into a stone wall and he slid down the road, he was saved from major harm by a leather jacket. As funny as this sounds, it could have been worse.

 

you all can sleep easy at night - it is off the road