Need build help

hey guys so ive had my tacoma for almost four years and im finally starting the aesthetic mods. I aleady have an sts turbo kit and a trd air intake installed on my swb trd offroad dc.

Right now I have a 3 inch lift supplied by king oe coilovers and rear king gas shocks.

1. At the moment I have stock offroad wheels with 30 inch Bridgestone Dueller A/Ts but I want new tires.....im thinking nitto dune grapplers or BFG Mud Terrains.....what size could i get with my lift.

2. I also want new wheels id rather get 16s or 17s but maybe 18s.....Idk what color (black or silver) or wheel would look good (but i dont like chrome) Please give me some suggestions for swb? Should i use spacers?

3. Finally I almost bought and arb bumper today that but i decided to wait......i really like SANDMAN427's bumper link: http://www.tacomaworld.com/gallery/showphoto.php/photo/130662/cat/500

but i dont know if it would look weird on a 3 inch lift.....
I would mount 2 or 3 light force 9 inch lights on either.

THANKS ALL I would really appreciate your input

 

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When i get my 2010 taco in a couple of months, im getting 295/70/18 Nitto Trail Grapplers wrapped around 18'' XD Hoss (Black) google them