04 Tacoma no headlights

Hello all!
Sorry new here, and currently have a very frustrating issue.
I've lost all front lights (except for parking) and I'm not must of an electrical guy to begin with. I of course know enough to check fuse, relay, bulbs, which I've done, AND replaced them (except for fuses, as they're clearly not blown).
I do have constant highs when holding back the multi switch, though I think that's likely irrelevant, assuming it's just the "flash to pass" function?
ANY HELP WOULD BE SERIOUSLY APPRECIATED! THANKS IN ADVANCE!

 

Are you checking things with a DVM, including the fuses?

 

No, as I mentioned, not much of an electrical guy

 

Well, you need to borrow or buy one to see where voltage exists and test components.

Or find a friend who can help.

Or pay a pro.

Guessing on the internet is just that.

Guessing.

Under $10 will get an adequate unit at harbor freight

 

So, using a power probe, no power at fuses, but they're not blown.
Also, this image is of the headlight relay. Green arrows have power, yellow have none

 

Crap, that was backwards.
Yellow power
Green no power

 

You need to test fuses for continuity. Because they dont always visibly fail

Does test light show power at the socket (bulb out, switch on, test light on, well grounded)

 

No, there's no power at the socket

 

By the way, this is something I would look to a electrical professional in an instant.
However, as with MANY people I realize, the last couple years have been extremely hard.
Which began with getting laid off simply because when the world went into their respective panic, nobody was having their vehicles worked on. It all went downhill from there. All that to say, I'm not currently in a position to pay for such a thing

 

So no power at socket with the lights switched on and no power at the (well grounded) test light...
what would that indicate?

 

Could it be the ignitor

 

There is no igniter on a halogen. If you have no power at the socket, and no power at the fuse, it is likely the relay that has failed.

 

It's a new relay

 

BRAND NEW

 

Do you have power at the relay plug? Brand new relays can be bad.

 

That was the photo I sent...
Power at the yellow arrows
No power at the green arrows

 

If you have power at the relay plug, but no power after the relay, it sounds like a problem with the relay. Can you audibly hear it click when you activate the headlights?

 

I can't, bit that doesn't mean it's not, don't have the greatest hearing.
Ironically, that was my first thought. Even though I JUST put a new relay in it, I brought it back to the parts store and told them I suspected it was faulty, but unfortunately they didn't have another one in stock so I wasn't able to find out for sure. However given that's something you believe is a possibility I'll certainly find another AutoZone in be sure to get one today

 

Do you have daytime running lights? There’s a fuse for that also. Possible headlight switch as well. Need to check for power there.

 

Yes, I have running lights. And yes, my thought was possibly the multi function switch