non-JBL to JBL Conversion Harness

Here we go, so I guess I just messed up, on my 3rd OEM head unit and this time I got the JBL version (I didn’t think any thing would be different, boy was I wrong) the reason for so many headunits breaking is simple my 3 year old thinks the CD player is a coin bank and takes the quarters I have stashed in the side compartment (driver side under the steering wheel by the door), this shorts something out inside and then the unit is done… ‍♂️
Needless to say now I am looking at the back of my 2009 Tacoma non JBL unit and at the back of the 2009 Tacoma JBL unit that just arrived from an eBay order and the plugs don’t match… should I even attempt the conversion or just let it rest and buy another unit on eBay?

 

Old unit (non JBL) vs. Replacement JBM unit.
old:
Toyota PN: 86120-04171-A
Delphi PN: 28222285

New:
Model No: 86120-04160
REF NO: CQ-KT1860X

thanks for any help in advance…