Once you have children it is no longer your life? But your job to raise then!

That is the way I remember my teacher telling us (graduating Seniors) on our last day in high school.
I knew what he meant! And when my wife and I had our children, we live for them! Took them everywhere, always giving lots of love and attention.

You see, Children look up to there parents like “gods” from the time they are born. They will copy everything you do, say and your behaviors.

As they get older, you will see yourselves in them, especially when your children become parents themselves.

I do not believe in spanking, the leading cause of human worst behaviors! If spanking “works”? Why does it “NOT work for adults?”
There will be other ways to teach a child? Why does punishment need to be violent?
Corrections works better in the long run.

And they will grow fast, before you know it? They are adults, behaving just like you. Raising there kids just like you!
Aloha

 

Part Two. There is only one way to change the world? One way only! If each of us can leave one good child and they in turn leave one good child, the world will become a “better world”

just that the “bad people are leaving “bad children” faster then we can leave a good child!
Aloha

 

As a teenager I got into a car accident that was my fault, no serious damages to the car nor we’re any passengers injure.
My Dad had to pick me up, police tow the vehicle, he ask what happened, I told him. He never said anything else on the way home.
When I got home, my Mom was upset, very mad, and wanted to scold me, My Dad told my Mom “stop”, he learn his lesson. And for the rest of my life never mention it again. And I never did forget that lesson too!
Aloha

 

Just saying , Your Tacoma should not come first! Your children should be the most important.