Searching for OEM silver wheels advice

Hi everybody, I am looking for a set of oem 16' SR5 wheels for my 21 silver sky tacoma. This is a reference picture of what I am going for:



However, I am having a little trouble figuring out exactly which wheels to get. It seems that there are 2 very similar colored wheels out there. I was able to find both variants for sale online and put them below for reference. I can barely tell them apart but I want ones like in the picture above that basically match the silver sky. One thing I noticed is that the years are different. Is it possible that Toyota switched from silver to grey in 2020, and my best bet to get the correct color is to buy ones that I know were taken off a truck from the correct year? What would you guys recommend for this situation?

 

You try eBay?

 

Yes, I am looking to buy used. However online it is very difficult to tell the silver from gray apart from each other. I am curious what you guys think will match the silver sky paint better and how to go about picking the silver from the grays when shopping because most people who post these for sale don't specify.