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If you think your weekend was bad, read this...

Discussion in 'Personal & Emotional Support' started by Drew5387, Oct 10, 2011.

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  1. Oct 11, 2011 at 3:57 AM
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    T@co_Pr3runn3r

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    My weekend didn't suck anywhere near that bad. Sorry for the loss. Prayers out to family & friends.
     
    T@co_Pr3runn3r, Oct 11, 2011
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  2. Oct 13, 2011 at 10:24 PM
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    Drew5387

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    Drew5387 [OP] You can't fix stupid

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    Well... I'm burying River tomorrow. Help pray that I get through tomorrow alright. Thanks to everybody for the prayers. I knew I could count on my TW friends.
     
    Drew5387, Oct 13, 2011
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  3. Oct 13, 2011 at 11:11 PM
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    babytruck Babytruck, babytruck...I've got a babytruck :)

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    Oh Drew, I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I'll never understand suicide. It's such a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I know at the moment whatever hell one is going through they must remember that they go THROUGH it, they very rarely STAY in it. :(

    ((hugs))

    Be strong Drew. I know it hurts but be be strong through the funeral. Eat good and get some rest.

    But cry.

    You need to cry.

    You have to cry. It's good if you do. It really is. :)

    Don't go over the "what ifs" because that's all under the bridge now. Just know that you were best friends and know that the times he spent with you made him happy. And that is why you guys were BEST friends. That he loved you. And for that you can celebrate!!

    Remember that.
     
    babytruck, Oct 13, 2011
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  4. Oct 13, 2011 at 11:58 PM
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    hoosiertaco

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    Wonderful words babytruck. You will be in my thoughts and prayers Drew.
     
    hoosiertaco, Oct 13, 2011
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  5. Oct 14, 2011 at 12:10 AM
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    Drew... I don't even know what to say man.
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    I wish I had some great wisdom to share with you but I've got nothin.
    Be strong man, I'll be thinking of ya.
     
    tinker_troy, Oct 14, 2011
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  6. Oct 14, 2011 at 12:13 AM
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    dayNnite4 We can't stop here, this is bat country.

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    sorry for ur loss man..cant imagine wat that must be like. stay strong bro talk who u need to talk to to get thru this.. im sure his other friends need a shoulder..why not be yours. ur in my prayers dude
     
    dayNnite4, Oct 14, 2011
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  7. Oct 14, 2011 at 12:17 AM
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    Moment of silence for you and his family for his untimely death, hang in their bud...

    And X2 Babytruck
     
    Tigahshark, Oct 14, 2011
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  8. Oct 14, 2011 at 3:19 PM
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    Babytruck. That was the best thing that has been said to me in the past week. Thank you

    And thanks to everybody for all the prayers and kind words. You guys helped me a lot. Me and my friends that were close to River, are even closer now.
     
    Drew5387, Oct 14, 2011
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  9. Oct 14, 2011 at 3:26 PM
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    sorry, stay strong Drew! RIP River
     
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  10. Oct 15, 2011 at 7:15 PM
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    babytruck Babytruck, babytruck...I've got a babytruck :)

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    Just checking on you Drew. Thinking about you....
     
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  11. Oct 15, 2011 at 7:19 PM
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    Im sorry to hear about this man, stay strong.. and i dont usually pray, but for this i will..keep your head up
     
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  12. Oct 15, 2011 at 7:25 PM
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    Drew, I'm so sorry to hear about that.

    Two summers ago, I had two friends kill themselves within a couple months of each other. One hung herself in March, in her dorm room, and the other jumped off a bridge in June. I grew up with both of them, and they won't ever be forgotten.

    I know it's weird, but just remember they never go far. I had a few dreams about them right after, and both times they told me they'd be there, just in different form. I bought a couple house plants the next day, and I swear I can feel them at the times I need guidance the most.

    You're in my thoughts, I hope you and River's friends and family stay strong through this, and that your friend, River, may rest easy.
     
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  13. Oct 15, 2011 at 7:27 PM
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    So sorry to hear that. :( Best wishes getting through this.
     
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  14. Oct 15, 2011 at 7:37 PM
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    babytruck Babytruck, babytruck...I've got a babytruck :)

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    Yes, Panther is right. They DO stay near you and they DO come to you in your dreams. It's the greatest feeling ever. It's a genuine comfort and security. And the thing is, you will know...you will FEEL...that River is okay now. He really is okay. No more pain for him. But you will know that. In your heart you will know that, Drew. :)
     
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  15. Oct 28, 2011 at 4:00 PM
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    so sorry for your loss. the pain of suicide is unbearable.
     
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  16. Oct 28, 2011 at 4:11 PM
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    Ditto. We don't exactly get called to Suicides, but I've seen more people pass to the other side then your average bear. If you need someone to bullshit with, rant to etc you can hit me up too if need be.

    If there's one thing I can say it's this. Whatever pain or depression your friend was feeling, it's gone now at the very least. Stay strong man.
     
    Krazie Sj, Oct 28, 2011
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