ASAP... 2005 tacoma lift questions (ome) ( 886 ) coils

I am new to this and am very confused after reading many forums so i am going to try and make this exact as i can and hope for EXACT answers lol....

Ill start off by saying i bought a 2005 tacoma trd 4x4 offroad DC... it seems very low compaired to some newer tacomas...

i powder coated my stock wheels and put 265 75 16 dueler revos on... i love them but they rub when i hit bumps.

that bring us to problem number 1.

I live in canada northern BC... fort st john i need winter tires by october 1st!
i want 265 75 16s.... which means i need some winter wheels

problem number 2

procomp black steelie winter wheels are offset so if i want 265 75 16s on them i am going to have extreme rubbing from what i hear they might not even work...

my solution to that is get a lift ASAP...

that brings us to problem 3... LOL

i was going to get 5100 all around with coils and new dakars leafs and LR UCA and everything but after researching i found alot more people happy with the full ome lift kit with ( 886 )I still will get LR UCA and dakars ( ordering from toytec )

that brings us to problem 4

I have ordered front bumper... back high clearance and sliders all from Eric at Relentless Fab... problem is they wont be done til christmas so i wont have the front bumper and winch in the front for the extra weight for the 886 coils...

after all these problems and solutions the only idea i have is....

Can i put sandbags in my back seats and right behind back window in the box of truck for the extra weight to weight down the 886s or will i be creating MORE problems for myself?... i plan on ordering a tom woods drive shaft so im not to worryed about messing up this 1 if thats the only problems i will run into but i dont wanna break anything else... ( sorry if i am compeletly wrong about what part wear and tear i am mechanicly ratarted... ) i also appologize for the horrible grammar and spelling i didnt do very well in school lol... JUST PLEASE HELP ME!

.. i really did try and do all my homework on these forums but still find myself lost and second guessing everything

i am open to any sujestions about lifting optiong or winter wheel options what ever throw it at me!