Typical Newcomer Questions Lift/Tires

Hi All-
I have a 2010 TRD Sport; 4 door long bed. I am aiming to get a 3 inch Readylift (or comparable package) with a new set of wheels and tires. I have spent hours browsing the threads but still don't know the exact specifications that will give me what I need, which is:

-inexpensive leveling kit with rear leveling to maintain rake (I don't do any serious off-roading)

-a "beefy" tire to (black) wheel ratio with a wider stance that will max out the space allowance without trimming

I know that many of you have fielded inquiries like this thousands of times and are probably tired of them, but if you have a similar set-up, any input or (especially) photos would be greatly appreciated.