Need help with rims

I am adding 3 inch lift this coming week to my 07 double cab TRD. I am frustrated with the wheel issue. I love the black classic look of eagle alloys 185 but now I have heard they may not clear the calipers in the front. Please help with suggests for similar wheels that will fit. I thought about wheel spacers but I hear they are un safe and I have my two kids that regularly ride with me on weekends. Thanks in advance, I need to get this figured out ASAP.

 

Any body??? Also considering still using the eagle alloys with a wheel spacer? Anybody know if extended lugs are as safe as installing longer studs? Also 1/4 spacer do any damage down the road?