Shock Absorber Replacement Question

My 08 shocks are kinda beat from boat towing and crappy Boston roads.
I get hopping when going over potholes, gouges and dead bodies. Its sooo annoying !!!

Also..
I go offroad about as often as a mountain lion comes into town for a double cappucino latte'.... So thats not what I need.

I want to replace them with a good quality shock that wont stiffen the ride. I saw some in the Buy/Sell forum but they are for TRD (maybe too stiff?).. Dunno.....
I did find these Bilstien heavy duty ones online. But I just don't know how they would feel, so I would appreciate suggestions if you got em'. I really don't know what to put on and once its done there is no turning back.

http://www.allshocks.com/bilstein/html/show_shocks.asp?make='TOYOTA'&model='Tacoma 4WD'&year='2008'

 

Try these. http://m.napaonline.com/parts/PartsDetail.aspx?k=ATMK554351_0299220223