Rough Country 3" Lift (Hate it!)

I just had the 3" Rough Country lift (leveling) kit installed on my 2012 4 door 4wd Tacoma. I'm running 265x70x17. I hate the ride, but like the look the lift provided. The truck bounces all over and rides too rough. I primarily use it to go to work, tow my boat, and go on the beach in south jersey. The beach ruts get deep at times. Is there anything I can do to replace this lift kit with something better and more comfortable, and keep the tires? Suggestions?

 

Icon coil overs bilstine 5100s with ebioch springs ome setup kings, sway away ect list goes on there is a thread all about lifting in the suspension section pretty sure its a sticky and will let you know everything you need to figure out what you really want

 

I have been looking at a few different forums. It gets very confusing. I'm not a car guy I just wanted a lift with a good ride that tows better and can go on the beach. To make my question simpler can I replace the rough country shock spacer with a billstein coil over and be do e with it

 

Bilstein 5100s with Eibach coils, 5100 shocks in the rear, and a 3 leaf progressive AAL.

 

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Use this with your stock coils and get the 1.5" add a leaf in the back.
http://toyteclifts.3dcartstores.com...able-5100-front-and-rear-5100-shock_p_31.html

 

Really like the way my newly installed 5100's and OME 885'S ride. Have like 3k miles on them.

 

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