4wd wiring gurus needed. 2013 2lo mod

I'm going to attempt the 2lo mod on my 2013 and I'm following the instructions in this thread.
http://www.tacomaworld.com/forum/2nd-gen-tacomas/195424-2wd-lo-mod.html
The only problem is that was written up for a 2007 and my truck is a 2013. I found the 4wd ecu behind the glove box like the link says. The thing is that write up says to work with the plug closest to the front of the truck and in my truck the plug to the back is the one with the color wires that are shown in the diagram. I'm just wondering if the wire colors are the same between a 2007 and a 2013 and just the plugs are switched or if it's completely different. Also the write up says to find the wires marked dm1 dm2 etc. on the f13 connector. I don't see any markings on the plug so I'm not sure which wire is which.