Another "fog light" question

Hello Everyone,
First off I apologize if this subject has been covered... I've searched but could not find it.

Here is my problem... I installed an aftermarket "Fog Light Kit" (harness/lights/switch etc.) onto my 2013 Tacoma base (4cylinder) which was not pre-wired.

The install was easy...I put a add a tap into the forward fuse box for power to the relay and tied the dash switch into an open fuse slot in the cabin fuse box. (I later switched it to the accessories fuse, but no change)

Everything works. However, when I shut down the truck...the automatic light shutdown system...takes out everything but the headlights (fogs, DRL's etc. go out...low beams stay on)

I can turn everything off manually but I would like to set it up so that everything goes off automatically....

Any thoughts on what I am missing?

Thanks!