2.5" Lift on 2017 Access Cab - likely beat to death

2017 tacoma 4x4 Access Cab 6 lug - TRD Sport, 6 speed manual - STOCK. No intention on adding additional weight up front.

Rides 'ok' -to me, feel a bit like a hay wagon but it is a truck and meant to take off road.

Budget - little over $1K
Height - 2.5 front / 1.5 rear is fine
Upper Control Arm - If I can avoid that cost, great
Shocks I tend to love - Bilstein 5100s from other truck experience

I have searched and searched, even searched the forum. My thoughts are this:
- Not a lover of the spacer in the front and rear
- See link below to suspensionlifts.com
- Bilstein's 5100 all the way around
- Front OME coil springs - either 884 or 885
- I cant find a thread in which another member put his spring setting on a higher than suggested for his access cab and said he had no issues. His silver Tacoma looked good
- Rear ICON 1.5" add a leaf. I think this is better than adding a cheap block plus I am hoping the ride improves.
- Rev tech diff drop kit.


Bilstein 5100 with OME Coilovers 2-2.5" Lift Kit for 2005-2015 Toyota Tacoma (suspensionlifts.com)

If you have experience on a similiar set up that I am trying to obtain, please let me know.
Thanks
Scott