2013 Tacoma DBL cab - touch screen upgrade - PLEASE HELP

Ok, I have had my 2010 for a year and because of divorce was forced to get rid of it... It had plain radio with JBL... I don't remember the user but there was a VERY kind gentleman who had an HD/XM/JBL touch screen that worked perfectly! I retained the unit, so that will be for sale (Model 4060) $350 plus shipping.

I landed a 2013, lifted, Fuel 20" TRD off road, 28K miles for $28k. Upgraded to a custom leather interior with heated seats... But it has a NON JBL NON Navigation touch screen... I am guessing a 4080 (which I already have if someone wants to buy $200?)

My problem is that I would really like to have XM and possibly pandora. Defiantly want hands free. The steering appeared to have hands free buttons...

I don't need nav, unless someone has an 2014/2015 they want to sell cheap!

I also know that I cannot use a JBL version. But if I get ANY NON JBL, it will work?

I have found the following:

4040
4120
4130
4141
4150

I just don't want to buy two radio's again!

ANY help would be greatly appreciated!!!

(and yes, I searched posts and threads...)

Ed