30 and younger thread

Basically yes.
I got my 5125's from DSMS for cheap because I asked them to price match and I picked them up myself.

Probably not going to be the right price, I'm trying to get as much for it as I can.
I'll try to list it on Ebay by this evening so if anyone is interested they can bid to why they want.

 

I see.

 

no problem. GLWS

 

Figured I'd pass this along. Some good deals. The site is legit; I've bought a lot of stuff off it. http://www.dealsergeant.com/weekly-...-50527613&mc_cid=8072ec760b&mc_eid=032fa70bc7

 

I posted in the green room on one of the threads there but I feel like I could get more responses in this thread. Please bear with me here...


So my ex of almost 3 years broke it off with me a little over a month ago (has broken up with me before twice), and among all of the lying BS that she used to blame me for the relationship going south, one of the things she said was that I cheated on her with a mutual friend of ours. Mutual friend is closer to me than her, and their friendship was very rocky and is now ended as of what I know. I never did anything even close to cheating on my ex, and she went out of her way to accuse both me and our mutual friend for doing stuff with each other which was not true.

Now the ex started going to a pool league with a coworker of hers when we were still together, and she said to not worry about the dude coworker. Well apparently they text but are "just friends and only talk about pool league and harmless stuff" according to her. Fast forward to now when we are broken up, and I found out that she has made out with this dude numerous times, even though it is against company policy to be messing with coworkers, and she claims that it is nothing between them and that he was being nice to her about the breakup so that's why she hooked up with him. Before breaking up with me she said that said coworker would never do such a thing as step out of line and hook up with a coworker because he was already caught once and almost lost his job so he was apparently set straight. Well apparently not because he did it again, only with her this time.

Is her taking all of her anger out on me at the time of the breakup, along with accusing me and blaming me for everything going wrong in the relationship a sign that maybe she did cheat in one way or another and is dealing with it by taking out her guilty conscience out on me by blaming me and accusing me of doing stuff that maybe she did and being angry with me? Any thoughts?

Oh yeah and side note, she found out that I had made a tinder thru one of her friends and got really pissed and went off on me about it (this is after she broke up with me). It's like dude, you chose to break up with me, and you get mad at me for moving on with my life?

Again, thoughts on all of this?

SIDE NOTE: She has also accused me of many different things, and used all of these excuses to backup her reason on breaking up with me. She said that I was selfish, always did what I wanted but never did what she wanted, never compromised for her, didn't make her feel appreciated or loved or special, didn't make her feel like she was good enough, didn't show her enough affection, lost our friendship, didn't talk to her anymore... etc. These are things that I can honestly say I am not guilty for as a whole. I did these things she accused me of not doing, but for whatever reason she doesn't see it or blames me for not doing it. She is extremely an unhappy person on her own with a flurry of self esteem issues and does not get along with many people at school. She has gone thru some shit as a kid too.

 

Forget her and move on.

Just ask Ben..

 

Forget her and move on.

 

What is TDLR? And I know to do that, I am trying to do that and am getting better. I have read a lot on manipulative and narcissistic people. Even stuff into personality disorders and it seems fitting.

But I want to know people's thoughts, more than just forget her. I want to know what people think about the situation and maybe find some viewpoints or answers I never saw before.

 

Ok, I'll do some research and see.

Sounds like she's crazy and needs to be locked out of your life.

 

Tl;DR = Too Long; Didn't Read

I think you're thinking way too much about it... forget her, move on and remember:

Fuck bitches get money

 

Here you go bud:
I was in a relationship much like yours. There was never any cheating but she would say things and accuse me of things just like your ex did/does. It's a result of insecurities in themselves and their lives. There's stuff going on in their brains that we can't understand, they might not understand, and might not be aware of either. If she cut you loose, she has zero right to give a shit about anything you do from now on. You made a Tinder account. Big deal. You hang out with one of her former friends. Tough shit. Don't give her any room in your thoughts or life. She's out of it now. Pursue whatever makes you happy. If that's other girls, so be it. You'll be much happier if you just pay her no attention and let her go about destroying her relationships and life and letting people use her.

 

Why do you even still talk to her? She's crazy. cut her out of your like and call it good. Our fancy phones can numbers, block her on facebook, and end all connections with her. If you guys have the same friends tel them you need some time and go do you for a while.

You are just as crazy as she is for keeping contact with her.

 

There's truth in this. Cut her out of your life and enjoy your own life, man. And as he said, if you have mutual friends, do your own thing for a while. Also, avoid people who try to tell you what she's been up to and shit. You don't need that either.

 

keep busy, over time you'll give less of a shit

 

you are responsible for your own happiness.

 

So she broke up with me a little over a month ago. But she reached out to me by phone call and voicemail the morning of 4th of July at 3 AM when she got off of work. I got the voice mail the next morning. She said that she wanted to talk and hope that she would hear from me. I texted her when I woke up saying that I was busy all day but I could talk the next day. She is asking me aggressively if I want to work on things between us, and that she wants to meet only if I am serious about it and that she doesn't wanna waste her time. So I just tell her yes to appease her but I came in with the mindset of I want to hear what she says.

We meet up the next day. Talk in my car. She says that she has been thinking a lot about us at home, thinking about what we could do to fix things. But she never gives me any examples. Then she tells me that she is having a hard time at home because her whole family is going thru issues, shes working extra hours for her parents at the bar, and that things with her best friend are also rocky and not so good right now. Basically everything sucked apparently. She wanted a hug I gave her one. She was crying. Then she flips a switch and goes on her whole rant of finding out that I had a tinder thru her friend and asking me why I made one. Basically saying that I moved on and that I am wasting her time being there and making me feel bad for moving on apparently. But then I get her to admit that she had done stuff with her cholo gangster dude that works with her, and she just keeps deflecting every question I ask her and cutting me off so that I can't make a point. I told her it was her fault that she broke up with me so I wasn't waiting around or gonna hold myself on her. Anyways, she then says she needs space and doesn't know what she wants. Then I go to pick up my stuff at her house later and she is all surprised and was like oh no I will give you it another time and I just got it because I was like screw it whatever. Then she goes oh this is so final. Then goes on to say that she is done with this back and forth, that she doesn't want to do this anymore. That we had a bad relationship and it was too hard for her and were too young. But then goes on to say that I am her best friend and that she loves me but her feelings just changed.

All of this came within 24 hours. From wanting to talk, to wanting to work on things, to needing space, to changing her feelings and not wanting to talk to me anymore. How can somebody change their feelings so drastically in such a small span of time? Like she changed her feelings on things multiple times in less than a day. Why? What the hell is she thinking?

 

Just drop her.. or be an askhole like Ben and do whatever the fuck you wanna do

 

Stahp talking to her.

 

Sounds like you need to go for a run dude. Endurance sports let you think your problems away since they are so mundane.

 

More than one person has said she's crazy. And she is. Walk away dude. Or keep spinning your wheels; it's your choice. You've received our opinions and advice; which you asked for.