30 and younger thread

She's just super immature so I don't even know anymore
Sorry I haven't gotten to read through every reply yet

 

Yeah don't be a blatant as me but you do have to approach sensibly to not put her on the defensive and wording it as how Ben said works very well.

 

I guess the actual thing that got me fed up was the random crying in traffic. I'm literally sitting cleaning out my phone case minding my own business and she keeps asking "Dereck can I turn left? Can I? Can I?" She'll literally keep asking till she gets a response.
I've been working till 5, I had two burgers, worked out and she expects me to be wide awake, I'm fucking exhausted.
She knew I wasn't in the best of moods and I'll fucking know when she purposely tries to get an answer out of me just to make her feel better. Apparently no doesn't mean no to her.

 

Sorry, but materialistic girls = no go.

 

I always ask/tell when turns are clear when there is a passenger or I am the passenger. Sometimes people will block the window

I am not defending her but you also have to look at your actions, and I am not saying you instigated anything. But cleaning your phone either means you're looking down (head probably in her field of vision out the window) or the phone is held up (same thing). So she could have not been able to see.

My gf is a small person but she manages to block my window when she looks down at her phone or something.

 

She was turning left, she decided to drive downtown so I'm not in the way at all. She said she gets "stressed out and overwhelmed".
There were cars coming from the opposite side and people crossing the street, if you don't know who has the right of way then why the fuck are you driving? Know what I mean

 

I'm not trying to be mean, but I think you're lying to yourself. Obviously you DO care, as you wouldn't be bringing up this stuff. It's not normal for a person to randomly burst into a crying/hissyfit at this age. Like Ben said, lots of red flags since the same issue seems to come up repeatedly. You need someone who will help support you, you shouldn't have to constantly take care of a "child".

 

Maybe she wants to keep the relationship and she does not know how to talk to you so she reverts to crying when she gets no response

How old is she and how old are you?

 

Man fuck this I give up

 

Not y'all. I appreciate the different views

 

Since phone cameras are getting so good, you guys think digital cameras are worth the money?

 

I kinda want a camera thats just "poitng and shoot" and not "unlock, open camera app, point and shoot".

 

#the struggles

#firstworldproblems

 

Not unless you buy a DSLR does it get much better than our phones.

 

A sony RX100 is what i would've gotten if i didn't get a Nikon D3200

 

Thats what I am thinking and what is holding me back

 

Ask Ben for help. I'm a noob.

All i know to ask is, would you prefer to not have interchangeable lenses?

 

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