3rd Gen 2x4 TRD OR 5100’s

Hey all, new here, trying to get a feel for all this. So much to take in.

I’ve narrowed it down a bit, looking for a mild to moderate lift. 1.5-2.5 in front and 1-1.5 in rear. Just a city driver mostly. Ski boat in the summer to haul. Really want to stuff 285’s under it. But 265 or 275 will work. Going to be putting 17” Ray10’s on soon.

I’ve now read horror stories about people running the 5100’s up front with to much lift. Can a 2x4 safely go 2.5” with the 5100’s?

Ideas for the rear? Would like to keep a small rake, .5-1”

Thanks,

Bluelinetaco