Alabama thread!

I guess I should have done that, I was going to use paypal...

 

If you're talking church, that's another can of worms right now I'm trying to solve.

Wrong, confidence. I've been told I have your list, I just lack confidence.

You always doing flight attendant stuff bro.

You want the long or short story? Here's the short, confidence.

See above.

 

Knowing is half the battle; fake it till u make it

 

For someone who has never had confidence it's not just a switch you can flip. You can't just fake it when you don't have a clue what confidence even feels like.

 

I did brah... My wife went on a pity date with me in highschool cuz her mom made her haha. If u start ur first conersation with some like "im super awkward and im prolly gonna say something stupid andim sorry for that up front" u break the ice up front, its kinda funny, it lowers her guard a bit and possibly her expecrations so if u dont say somethin stupid u exceed her expectations

 

I know the feeling brother.

 

This x1000.

If she can't live with you being you now, how you gonna expect em to do it foreva?

 

Tried it, multiple times. Not necessarily intentionally either, I just stumble like that. But rejection is a bitch, that keeps on swinging. Rejection will knock you down to a level of never wanting to try again.

 

Lemme show you the list of 2,432 rejection emails from jobs I have applied to. You don't see me being bashful about trying new things.

I know it's different. But just like with "failing", you're really just finding out what doesn't work or what isn't right for you.

Gotta keep being you bro and the right woman for you will come along and love the absolute shit out of you and practically worship the ground you walk on.

 

That's why I said it will happen when it happens. I can't force it to happen. All I can do is be me. It just so happens "me" is an unconfident shy person. But so far every time I've been "me" with a girl it hasn't worked.

 

Dude I have severe issues with self image. You just have to go for it!

 

The best advice I can give you is "just be you". That is the only thing you can be good at all of the time because you don't have to pretend, are live up to some mythical standard. But what do I know, only been married 52 years.......to the same woman.



SORRY! I was behind on my reading and didn't realize you and Zack said essentially the same thing. Maybe that means we are on to something about you being you.

Zack is right. Somewhere there is a gal who will fall head over heels in love with you without you changing a thing.....until after you are married.

 

I just can't find a way to flip the switch and go for it. I've literally in my entire life only asked one girl for her number in person. The rest were all given to me.

 

I hope to say the same one day.

 

Either way should be fine. I'm sure they will send something out tomorrow about the order.

 

For the AOP guys, how early sat are y'all thinking about leaving? Trying to decide if I should leave Fri night or sat

 

I'll just call them back tomorrow, they were extremely helpful!

 

As early as y'all want. I can do anytime.

 

um we know you will be the last one there so when do you want to leave?

I was thinking like around 6-7?

 

Lol yeah that's what I'm trying to avoid. I can go Fri and my buddy can leave work early on Fri.

We will just be heading up 59. Scotty what route are you taking?