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Bad news at home

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by longbow, Dec 12, 2008.

  1. Dec 12, 2008 at 12:27 PM
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    vtragweed

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    im sorry to hear about that man, we all wish yall the best and hope everything goes alright. try to keep spirits up man, i know its hard, we're always here if you need to talk to someone
     
  2. Dec 12, 2008 at 12:36 PM
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    Dilsky

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    I am really sorry to hear that, best of luck to both of you.
     
  3. Dec 12, 2008 at 12:43 PM
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    maddog79

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    I am sorry to hear about it coming back. I will be praying for your wife and your whole family.
     
  4. Dec 12, 2008 at 12:55 PM
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    mjp2

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    Vent away. You've got more support than you realize around here.

    Prayers are with you!
     
  5. Dec 12, 2008 at 1:23 PM
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    Charli

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    My prayers are with you and your family and will continue to be until I hear that there is no longer a need for them because the cancer is gone!
     
  6. Dec 12, 2008 at 1:31 PM
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    seancanterbury

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    My heart goes out to you and your family. I know what its like to have a family member with cancer, my dad fought it for three years. Just keep keep praying and keep your head up high. Your family will sure be in my prayers.
     
  7. Dec 12, 2008 at 2:15 PM
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    longbow

    longbow [OP] I see you now..................

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    Thanks so much for the thoughts and prayers, and for you all who are married, PLEASE make sure your little lady gets her checks done. For my wife everything showed up within a year.
    Some may think this is to much info but I feel comfortable in writing it. During the second stage of chemo the cancer was feeding off it, no crap, like a baby taking milk. That is the reason she was rushed to surgery, and decided to have done what she had done. The cells were also tested to see if it was something that was passed on in her genes.
    Their is alot of doctor stuff/words to explain it all. During her year visit is when they found another lump, this had started in the scar tissue. Besides her having the large lump at first she had a number of smaller ones that could not be tested due to the depth in the tissue.
    She has made peace with the whole thing and that their is a reason for it, the Lord has plans for something, or for her to share with someone else. For me, this time I am having a hard time coming to grips with the whole thing, most due to the fact I can do nothing, but the other is that this is my wife, I would kill anyone who caused her harm and would lay my life for her if I needed to.
    As missleman said, why do people or are so bad, have no issues or problems. And yet those who are good in every aspect, deal with things that just aren't right. She worked during the whole thing last time, I know it was a release for her, her job is one that brings her joy even though it is somewhat stressful (H.R. for large drug company).
    I don't know you all.........tail spin here.
     
  8. Dec 12, 2008 at 2:22 PM
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    Damn man., I am so sorry to hear this... I really can't say anything but that my prayers are with you. Makes you really think. I really don't know how I would feel if wifey was the one in that situation. That freaking sucks.

    Best of luck.
     
  9. Dec 12, 2008 at 2:28 PM
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    hoosiertaco

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    Hang tough brother.....prayers going in for the whole family, her name is back in my pocket bigger than before. You got my number, call anytime man. We will get together sooner than I thought. I'll be in touch.:)
     
  10. Dec 12, 2008 at 2:32 PM
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    yes im so sorry to hear this news. im going to share with you some advice about this that helped me get through my grandmothers diagnosis. Find God and pray about it. Seeking God is a hard task to do especially when you are confronted with such a hard chunk of news like this. trust me i know. but, if you can make time to pray and ask God what to do. now i know how easy it is to be mad at God, but being mad at God wont fix the problem. hope i didnt offend anyone by sharing an opinion. But i will also be praying for you and especially your wife.
     
  11. Dec 12, 2008 at 3:39 PM
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    ZonKs

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    I am very sorry. That must be absolutely terrible to have to go through. I could not imagine that happening to my girlfriend. My prayers are with you.
     
  12. Dec 12, 2008 at 3:41 PM
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    Bill, I wish the best possible outcome once the two of you get through all of this. My prayers are with you.
     
  13. Dec 12, 2008 at 3:43 PM
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    Good luck to you and your wife. Always sucks to hear that cancer has come back....best wishes bro
     
  14. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:07 PM
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    hope all goes well man. keep ur head up.
     
  15. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:16 PM
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    luk8272

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    Our prayers are with ya'll, she beat it once and can do so again, keep on keeping on.
     
  16. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:18 PM
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    derekabraham

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    I'm sorry man. :(


    My thoughts are with you and your wife.
     
  17. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:20 PM
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    luk8272

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    In my opinion, your wife is correct there is a plan for her, the lord knows she is strong enough too handle it. Bad people prove time and again they can't handle situations.
     
  18. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:54 PM
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    David Tarantino

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    longbow be strong right now she needs you your family needs you
    to be strong
    We are all with you
    May god be with you and your family
     
  19. Dec 12, 2008 at 4:57 PM
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    My prayers go out to you and wife. im married and i dont know what i would do in your case, its a hard run but hang in there man you got alot of prayers going your way from people who havent met you so we do care and we want to see the both of you guys get through this. Keep us updated if you can -Steve-
     
  20. Dec 12, 2008 at 6:22 PM
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    Holy crap! Prayers out to you, man. God bless you and your wife.
     

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