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Broke up

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by tarheelfan_08, Feb 14, 2009.

  1. Feb 14, 2009 at 9:15 AM
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    tarheelfan_08

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    Me and my GF(ex now) broke up last night at like 12:30am. We have been on a break all week but when she come home she was sweet and loving on me and kissing me and then out of no where she said she needed time to think and mature and couldn't put 110% into our relationship! Its hard after being strung on all week having her say she loves and cares about me and then on Valentines day us breaking up! We are gonna go eat and give stuff back to each other tonight though! Wish me luck!
     
  2. Feb 14, 2009 at 9:17 AM
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    chris4x4

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    Sucks to hear the bad news, buddy. Godd luck though. :)
     
  3. Feb 14, 2009 at 10:20 AM
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    Bakemono

    Bakemono Wrath of the runbird

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    If she is playing games like that, you are probably better off without her. Dont get too down about it, theres plenty more women out there. Give her all the time and space she needs and go find someone else. Then, when she tells you in 6 months or a year and says she has realized how much she loves you and wants to be with her, laugh in her face and tell her that she missed her chance.
    Take it from someone who has been in your shoes, once the hurt fades and you are over her, you will realize that you are better off.
    My last girlfriend was kinda like your ex. Mine was very insecure and has some serious body image issues (cute girl, but accord to her she is fat and ugly) and lemmie tell ya, constantly hearing, "I just dont understand why you want to be with me, you can do better." and "I cant let myself have feelings for you for a really long time because I cant be sure that once I fall for you and things happen between us that you wont dump me for someone better, I wont let a man break my heart again." gets old after a while.
    I loved the girl, but putting up with all that psycho drama gets old after a while.
    I was down about it at first too (it doesnt help that I work with her and I shes constantly giving me dirty works and moaping around work all the time), but after a while I got over it and accepted the fact that she couldnt give me what I need to be happy, so Im really better off without her.
    Chicks like that need a guy who is going to treat them like crap and feed their self-hate and self-loathing and would never be happy in a mature, healthy relationship.
     
  4. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:16 PM
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    tarheelfan_08

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    I one hundred percent agree!!
     
  5. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:22 PM
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    brianr

    brianr go shit in your hat

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    welcome to chicks bro.

    Chicks will pull that B.S. and yank you around a whole bunch.

    - they say one thing, do another...

    -Remember that women function off of emotions, as where we all know us men function off of logical or literal thoughts. Women often make many more hasty judgements or hasty actions than men in a relationship. Its the female nature.

    I have learned alot recently. I can tell you to listen to the song "Living, Loving Maid" from Zeppelin...might put some insight into how I view most women.


    I don't think there is a cure for such problems with females...suck it up and have another brew.

    EDIT- Trust me, I just went through this crap recently, and before that I went through this crap another with 8 or so females. The alst one decided after crawling back to me for some sack time she was going to leave me because she didnt want to quit cigarettes. Owell, her loss.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NVszPCeb_6Y
     
  6. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:25 PM
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    Oh_Six_Taco_4x4

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    Tell her your sorry but you can't make it to dinner tonight. You have another dinner date. Is it possible to reschedule?
     
  7. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:26 PM
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    neslerrah

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    I'm sorry to hear. Look ahead, there are other girls out there.
     
  8. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:27 PM
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    don't meet with her tonight, tell her you are busy with your freinds or on a date, being single is great, do what you want when you want, no games no bs, just get a bullpen of ladies and call them over when you need a womens touch.
     
  9. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:27 PM
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    x2 that'll fuck her up.
     
  10. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:31 PM
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    Borrowed from things that make you say wtf?
     
  11. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:40 PM
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    That is great..and as for not going out with her tonight I cant..It would bother me.. and she just called from her work phone to let me know that she was sorry if i had tried to text or call today and that she hasint replied cause she left her phone at home from where she didn't sleep last night...Sadly enough i had texted her earlier(to tell her I wanted my flash drive back to hahah)
     
  12. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:42 PM
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    Sorry to hear that man. Hey that's life though bro. Your better without her anyways I'm sure.;)
     
  13. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:47 PM
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    "FLASHDRIVE"??? Thats what you got her for Valentines day? :eek: No wonder she's acting weird. JK bro. Remember, HE WHO CARES THE LEAST always wins. Be super nice to her. By super nice to her I mean almost sarcastically nice, and watch her reaction. gl
     
  14. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:49 PM
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    x2 bro, that'll fuck her even more.

    Also, when you see her at some intersection months later, you can flip her off. :D
     
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    lol yes you men are ALWAYS logical and us females are just crazy :rolleyes: :)

    ...sorry to hear about the break up. best thing is to just move on :)
     
  16. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:57 PM
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    no no no...she hsas my flash drive for school and it was $40 and I wanna make sure she gives it back to me when she gives me my stuff toni!

    But on the bright side...I guess my mom and dad feel bad for me since we broke up after 8 months(or maybe excited lol idk) and they are gonna let me barrow $400 dollars to get my wheels and tires this week!
     
  17. Feb 14, 2009 at 2:59 PM
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    I will let you know how it goes tonight!
     
  18. Feb 14, 2009 at 5:33 PM
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    Sorry bout that man :(
     
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    damn...
     
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