Connecting Gentex Rearview mirror to 25 pin connector in A-Pillar

I’m installing a power mirror in place of my non-power “plain” rearview mirror and need to wire it to the 25 pin connector in the A-Pillar. How do I do so? This is what I’m working with:

 

I.D. the 3 wires (I see a ground) and we may assist with the Tacoma Connector. (IN1)

 

Send picture of underside same connector, you might have the required wires on that side...#13 & #14

 

I’m sorry but I’m not able to pull off connector to get picture of underside (it seems pretty attached to A-Pillar) if I unclip wires will it set off airbags or anything? Here’s a picture that may or may not help, thanks for your help

 

I have this information but I’m just not sure how to actually connect wires with provided wire harness... do I cut off all connectors at ends of wires and slide in the ends of wires into corresponding slots mentioned into 25 pin connector? Thanks!!

 

Yes those be the ones I mentioned #13 (IGN) & #14(BAT):

 

Look from underneath, middle row...I can't see if the topside connector has them.

 

You might even have this connector taped up in the overhead.

 

I so wish I did! It’s not there, I’m still try to figure this out!

 

Did you ever get this figured out? I'm hoping you found a fix to share.