Cranks, but no start 08 Tacoma 2.7L 5 lug base model

I don't know if this means anything; but my friend did say that the STOP light fuse (10A) kept blowing occasionally and he would just replace the fuse. This was while the truck was running.

 

What kind of tool do I need to de-pin the 5v wires?

 

I can't think of anything else it could be other than a dead PCM, I wish someone else would chime in that knows Toyota engine management better. Only other things I can think of to try is unplugging the secodary air injection driver and alternator and seeing if anything changes, can't see those knocking the PCM offline but I suppose it could be possible.

I couldn't see that hurting anything unless someone put a bigger fuse in it and melted some wiring or something.

I use the

$46 Lisle 57750 Wire Terminal Tool Kit, One Size, Factory

Lisle Terminal Tool Set and haven't found much it wont work on but some you can get with a pick and a mini flat screwdriver.
If I recall correctly the Toyota connectors have a little lever that has to be flipped up and then each pin can be unlatched individually.

 

Have you made any progress in figuring this out?