dirty tape poll

If I found out my SO still had a tape of them and an EX I'd be angry...I'd never watch a tape of my SO with an EX and I'd never keep a tape of me and an EX or ask my current SO to watch one....

That is just not healthy for a relationship no matter how stable to think the relationship is. Ex's are the past and the past should remain the past, it doesn't get brought up or discussed. If you are into eachother you have no reason to want to see the other person engaged in personal intimate acts with someone else.

My bf and I met through mutual friends, when we started dating he wanted to know if I'd been with anyone he knew, so that if someone tried to mention it to him he would already know and it wouldn't cause any problems with us...I told him and he told me anything that could cause a problem if someone wanted to be an ass to either of us...well someone tried and was shocked we already knew eachothers history. Its never been a problem, but we do not discuss our past sexual relationships any further than that.

 

I wouldn't want to see it. I would probably be asking her why she wants me to see it.

Sure its the past, but I have no want to see my SO doing that with some one else. It serves no purpose for me - at all.

 

Yeah im kinda with Brian on this,. but unsure about watching the tape.

 

I think it would be one thing to see some dirty pictures an ex took of just her. That would be kind of ok. But to watch her and the ex.... I dont think so. Just make your own. (and send it to us)

 

You guys actually tape yourselves?

That a little weird to me.....

 

Agreed...nothing good would happen after watching a video of your SO and their Ex. I can't think of one positive outcome.

 

Nope. No Way! Not gonna happen.

 

For some reason this thread is pissing me off, I'm going to have to go home an bitch slap her for no reason.

 

Fuck That!

 

HELL TO THE NAW!

But if I were you, I'd make many many NEW videos... I love freaky women!

 

This thread pisses me off too!

 

Same!

I wouldn't want my SO seeing a video of me and an ex either....

 

Fake -- I would tell my SO that i would NOT want to watch something like that and find it disgusting.

Truth -- In reality I would want to watch it secretly and would prolly find it exciting.

It's kind of like the 2Girls1Cup vid -- you say it's disgusting and it makes you sick, but how many times did you watch it? Really?

It's just one of those things that make you go ... hmm. Good question, OP.

 

i agree but i'm gonna go a step further. any girl who would WANT to watch it to compare, is already insecure enough to where seeing it would definitely make her more insecure and not boost her confidence at all.

for the record, i voted No, i would not watch my gf and her ex get it on

 

and if you aren't? you'd prolly never get over it. not worth it in my opinion

 

A well spoken, healthy and mature attitude.
That being said, Hell Yea I'd watch it.

 

Wow didn't think neg rep points were in order for this thead but I guess I was alittle to hash for some people.

 

I'd take that tape and double tap it with the shotty.

 

Knowing one was made.... wouldnt care!
Knowing she still had it.... WTF?
Being asked to watch...... Ha, you have lost it
I like what Brianr said, definetly would not watch but its also unhealthy to get too pissed off about it! IMO anger is just as bad in a relationship as some f-ing video! Tell her no and then move on..... and make your own videos!!! Then watch those! Hell yeah, in HD!!!

 

^ Jandy knows whats up...

it would if you had a brain.

^ Ryan knows whats up.

its NOT negative rep dipshit...its NEUTRAL rep.

^ MR knows whats up.