dtrl on/off toggle into fj switch?

So I was up till 12:30am last night probably pissing off neighbors trying to clean up my switches and thought about it more this morning after not getting anywhere.

So I have the 5 pin (fj roof light) and 6 pin (fj fog light) which both have the extra light to signal that the switch is on/off

for using the 6pin, i've found;
from top to bottom;

Pin 1: Illumination Power for "Lights On" indicator light
Pin 2: Ground for Illumination circuit
Pin 3: Switch Power (taken from Marker Lamp Tap)
Pin 4: Line Out to Relay
Pin 5: Ground for Backlit Illumination Circuit
Pin 6: Illumination Power for Backlight

I currently have my dtrl on the oem 4-pin fog light switch as;

pin 1: other tap from dtrl signal
pin 2: tap into dtrl signal
pin 3: ground(for backlight)
pin 4: illumination backlight power

so when I press it in, pin 1 and pin 2 close the dtrl circuit and they function as normal.

to change it over to the 5-pin or 6-pin, I would need to add a relay to the wires I used to intercept the dtrl signal?

using as an example;

so the pin out would be modified to pin 4(6-pin setup) being the dtrl on/off toggle relay and
pin 1 would tap into pin 4,
pin 3 would tap into ignition power circuit(12v source),
pin 2 ground

am I making any sense?

I'm also trying to figure out how the 5-pin switch is set up to be used in the same way.

a relay similar to http://www.radioshack.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3020762

 

good luck .im having trouble also.i guess no one knows how to fix mine.lol

 

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