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dumped the gf...but want her back...wut to do?

Discussion in 'Off-Topic Discussion' started by xtirtzt, Jul 15, 2009.

  1. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:00 PM
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    xtirtzt

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    so i dumped my gf cause she was yelling at me for every little thing lately and about 5 days after i dumped her i realized how much she actually means to me and decided i want her back..the only problem now is she says she is confused on what to do she doesnt know if she wants to go back out with me or not cause ive dumped her twice before, and we also disagree on a few other things but im sure those can be worked out, the first time i dumped her it was for less than 24 hours before i told her to forget wut i said...we've been dating for 2 years and i was her first so im sure she is pretty attached to me i hope...but i just dont know what i should try to do to win her back..what do you guys think? anyone one else been in a similar situation before? or do you think i should just try to get over her and move on?
     
  2. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:02 PM
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    JDMcQ

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    Let her go. You are only going to prolong the inevitable.
     
  3. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:22 PM
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    URBIKESUCKS

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    get some more push push in the bush while looking for another.
    Then and only then decide who you want more and take it!
     
  4. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:45 PM
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    magikbean562

    magikbean562 once flirted with danger, danger got clingy

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    x2. yeah dude shit aint gonna change. the only reason you want her back is cause your horny. your body needs it fix and thats what your feeling.
     
  5. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:47 PM
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    gouge44

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    vtragweed

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    pics will help us decide!
     
  7. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:50 PM
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    chris4x4

    chris4x4 With sufficient thrust, pigs fly just fine. Moderator

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    where is that wall.........


    Oh....There it is!

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  8. Jul 15, 2009 at 4:57 PM
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    KenpachiZaraki

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    Dude forget it, there's plenty other girls out there you can go out with and dump later. There are plenty fish in the sea my friend!
     
  9. Jul 15, 2009 at 5:09 PM
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    genxer36

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    It is time to move on. If you are constantly fighting, getting back together is not going to improve the situation. It will only make it worse. I know from experience, since I married the spawn of Satan. Let her go! You never know oneday when both of you have gained more maturity, you may try again. The feelings you are having are normal. Yes you may care deeply about her. But if you can't get along it just means you are not compatible. You may come out of it as friends.

    Give yourself some time to grieve(sorta speak). Then move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Or as I have found the free dating site plentyoffish.com to be a gold mine!:D

    Good luck,
    Sean
     
  10. Jul 15, 2009 at 5:10 PM
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    Delmarva

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    Don't try to get her back... yall obviously aren't right for each other... it will just end in due time again...
     
  11. Jul 15, 2009 at 5:11 PM
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    neontrail

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    let her go.... if its ment to be, it will be
     
  12. Jul 15, 2009 at 6:28 PM
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    mntbiker2008

    mntbiker2008 First I derp.. then I herp

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    let her go dude. you have broken up because of other reasons. dont take this the wrong way but what makes you think this is going to stop? get yourself a nice lookin lady that wont nag nag nag nag nag. your life will be so much better. i was in the same boat as you at one point... broke up with her a few times, got back with her again. final decided she wast worth the frustration so i said seeya. found the lady im with now and its going great. sure we have our moments but doesnt everyone?


    imo get rid of her. it aint worth it.

    Aaron
     
  13. Jul 15, 2009 at 6:31 PM
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    eordonez

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    can i use your wall too??

    :frusty:
     
  14. Jul 15, 2009 at 8:47 PM
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    Krazie Sj

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    Meh, me and the little lady fight all the time. It's refreshing to have someone who doesn't put up with shit and will back up their own opinion. Plus she's a fire crotch so I should have expected her to have a little fight in her. ;)

    I think in the 4 years we've been together I think we've broken up and gotten back together about 3-4 times.

    So far so good. :D
     
  15. Jul 15, 2009 at 8:56 PM
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    chris4x4

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    :frusty: :frusty: :frusty: :frusty: :frusty: :frusty: :frusty: :frusty:
     
  16. Jul 15, 2009 at 8:56 PM
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    get laid by another chick and you will forget all about it
     
  17. Jul 15, 2009 at 8:59 PM
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    MonkeyProof

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    i'd move on and get a one dollar hooker down by china town is what i would do
     
  18. Jul 15, 2009 at 9:14 PM
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    Ghost96Romeo

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    Maybe she was yelling at you cause like you don't use any punctuation or anything in your runon sentences and it makes it really hard for us to read this kinda stuff while you are typing and stuff and we don't care

    Edit: I dn't know wut u should do either
     
  19. Jul 15, 2009 at 9:15 PM
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    Youre just attached because you were together for so long. Ive been in the same situation it's better just to move on. In a month she'll be pissing you off again and you'll wish you left.
     
  20. Jul 15, 2009 at 9:16 PM
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    eordonez

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    sweet! thank you!
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